I have a partner who is almost, but not quite as bad. unless i specifically give her permissions, she doesn't orgasm easily. This is due to her ex having done similar, - requiring permissions and not always giving even then. Thankfully for her, she seems to accept me as over-ruling anything prior, and I wouldn't do that to her even though i still have to give the ok to ensure she does enjoy herself. Hope you find a way around that block.
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Date: 2010-07-31 12:03 am (UTC)