This could get interesting

[bonnie_rocks]

As seen elsewhere on the intertubes:

Anonymous comments are enabled for the next 72 hours indefinitely, and IPs are not being logged. Share something about you sexually: wants, experiences, preferences, fears. Anything goes, and yes, this applies even if you don't have a sex life right now. Confession is good for the soul.

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I want to make it clear to anyone thinking of commenting, but are afraid that others will pass judgement: This is a kink-friendly and judgment-free space. The nature of this sort of confessional is that sometimes people will be confessing things that are difficult for them to talk about. As long as it's all consensual, it's all okay here.

Ok...GO!

~*::Meow::*~

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Even the best Friendships will fade with enough time. Poeple go off, make new friends, find someone to marry and go off and do their own thing. Chances are very high that in 10 years you will barely talk to this person much (not 100% because anything is possible). the old saying "it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" rings true here, because sharing your feelings with the special person and being shot down or not having it work out beats the hell out of a lifetime of regret and the dreaded thought "what could have been?"

so before you get the response "We are such good friends so it would be wierd" I say go for it, from one who followed the low road, and has to face it everyday...

[bonnie-rocks.livejournal.com]

Couldn't have said it better myself.

~*::Meow::*~

[(Anonymous)]

having had things go both ways, I agree with this.

[(Anonymous)]

I do know this from a very personal experience. I first met her when I was very young, before I knew what falling in love was. She re-entered my life during high school, and it made realize what those feelings were... I took the path of friendship, not wanting to ruin our friendship or just lieing to myself about how I really felt about her. When I built up the courage to tell her, she already was in a relationship (one of a few that would keep her from being single for many years). In what seems like a series of events that could be taken as fate, she starting showing up places I was at, and we begin talking and relived the friendship we had years ago. It felt like fate had given me that 2nd chance (and I am not one to believe or fate or destiny).. The night I was ready to tell her how I felt I couldn't get much out and was almost in tears... a day or two later, I wrote her a long email telling how about how I felt, and asked only to sit down and talk... we never did get that talk and haven't talked much or hung out... that was over 7 years ago.... as much I as have tried to move on, time only makes it hurt more.

[(Anonymous)]

That's rough. *Huggs*