My SO and I hhave been sleeping together for 12 years, exclusively. We have for most of this time enjoyed B&D, spanking, various positions, porn, pretty much anything the other wants to try. The problem is that, honestly, I'm tired of having to put on a performance to have sex. Sometimes I just want a quickie. Sometimes I just want to read a good book. I'm 36, is that so wrong?
Bored with the kink