I'm sure you wouldn't like people to define you by a part of you that you can't change.

Wait, but that happens all the time, what the hell are you talking about. Male porn star are defined by their cock size, female by boob size. Scientist by intellect (the direct opposite of retarded I might add). Basketball players by their height and so on and so on.

By the way, i also used to work with retards, we called then retards, and also people, or campers, but never late for dinner, because they didn't like that indeed.